SHE IS MY INSPIRATION #WOMENINISLAM (Khadijah bint al-Khuwaylid)
Everybody needs a good role model and there's one woman who has captured my heart unlike any other and it's Khadijah bint al-Khuwaylid (May Allah be pleased with her).
Here's the brief story of Khadijah and why she's my inspiration:
Khadijah was the kind of woman who wouldn't allow challenges or social stigma to get in the way of her success and happiness. She saw something special in Prophet Muhammad (pbuh), a staff she had hired for her thriving textile business, and she admired and respected him because of his fine character which made her feel at ease. Despite being 15 years older, Khadijah did what would be considered unthinkable even by today's standards. She trusted her intuition and proposed to Prophet Muhammad (pbuh). When he received divine revelation and became a prophet after 15 years of marriage, she was the first to accept Islam and dedicate everything she had to spread the noble message that God is one and Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) is His final messenger. Being a strong woman only enhanced her ability to be a devoted wife and Muslim.
As a woman, I've learned a lot from Khadijah (may Allah be pleased with her):
Be an independent women.Allah has given women the prerogative to seek freedom and fulfillment by worshipping Allah and not His creations. There is no harm in seeking knowledge and earning an income because it is virtuous to practice self-compassion and seek provision for yourself and your family.
Be a source of inspiration and strength for those around you.This means we must not be afraid of doing the right thing when it's hard; we must challenge ourselves and others too, if it will help them to become better people. To challenge someone out of love and mercy is very different than to challenge someone due to one's ego and being outspoken is not the same as being rude. To teach someone to think for themselves is a great act of love and concern.
Self-confident.Khadijah was not a selfish and insecure woman; she wasn't afraid to voice her opinions and make sacrifices when she needed to. She was willing to give her wealth, time and energy to help others. Furthermore, despite being widowed twice, she had the courage to propose and marry a man who was 15 years younger than her because she fell in love with his impeccable character. If that doesn't scream self-confidence, I don't know what does.